Beloved Friends, It's that time again, TONIGHT 1.30.10 is the next Easiest & Best Date-Night Ever! We only have two spaces left, and this is the final Date-Night class that I will be teaching! This might be the moment that you acknowledge your desire to deepen your connection, this could be the night that you fall in love again... click here to register. See below for more information.
I hope to see you there and I wanted to share with you a very special, and simple exercise that will prepare you for a very intimate night together... I recommend doing this as a preparation for the event if you can make it, but even on it's own it is pretty exceptional.
This is an opportunity to explore your arousal…awakening the lower chakras and connecting with the power of our sexuality. Then we will begin to invite that energy to penetrate our entire body.
Most of us are fragmented in our bodies…we are talking heads, or if we are lucky we can even connect our head to our heart…but we are cut off from the lower half of our bodies. Our arousal and sexuality and life force move within us, but they are often caught in a ‘holding pattern’. We continue to follow our sexual impulses, but we receive little lasting satisfaction from our encounters and they often leave us drained.
By releasing the blocks in the body we make way for the sexual life-force energy to rise up the spine. This translates as a genuine connection to ourselves and an experience of aliveness flowing through our entire body. Many of us are longing for this connection, but we are lacking in the tools to pave the way towards experiencing this. The Sexiest Meditation to try…
- Sitting comfortably, imagine being made love to in the most delicious way possible. Allow the fantasy to be fun, sexy, nasty…whatever it is that truly begins to awaken your genitals. (Try doing this without touching yourself).
- Once you are aroused, give up the fantasy and relax completely. You can stay sitting or lay down. Allow the aliveness that you have awakened to move through your body without interfering.
*If you would like to take it a bit deeper, you can do step 1 by sharing the fantasies with your beloved. Allow one partner to share fully, without interruption and then the other partner shares. Move to step 2 without any talking or touching.
This will begin to show your body what is possible when you allow the arousal to ripen within you, rather than expressing it through orgasm. Your body will gradually become more and more sensitive, as your sensitivity increases you can begin to experience an orgasmic sensation throughout your entire body.
Now it’s time to leisurely dress and prepare to attend The Easiest & Best Date-Night with Charu to continue your evening of deepening and exploration. ;)
If you can’t make it to the event, this is a great moment to spend some more quality time together massaging one another, making love, enjoying each other in any way that feels good for you.
...here is what some other couples have shared:
"Finding tantra was like finding a long lost friend, it felt very natural and normal for my boyfriend and I to be with one another in a more sensitive, present, meditative, energetic, and exploratory way but no one had given us permission before. It was in us! But we needed someone to show us the way.
We had a huge break through after just one meeting. Not just huge - gigantic!
Our relationship changed forever after just one session. The work touched us so deeply, so quickly, so powerfully, we could not believe it."
The Easiest & BEST Date-Night Ever! Learn How Tantric Meditation Can Enhance Your Love-Life...
Jan 30th . 6-8pm . West LA
$100 per couple
Honor your partnership by spending a special evening connecting and sharing your deep gratitude and love for one another. Not only will The Easiest & BEST Date Night be more adventurous than your typical dinner and a movie...it also has the power to change the dynamic of your relationship, giving you all of the tools you need to begin to approach lovemaking and all aspects of your relating in a new and 'tantric' way.
In a long-term relationship it can be difficult to make sure that you are consistently nourishing your love, connection and sex-life...this special evening offers a different Tantric meditation experience each month so you can effortlessly add a new dimension to your relating on a monthly basis.
By attending, you are taking an important step towards transforming your sex life, and perhaps even more importantly, you are taking a step towards an intimacy that few couples allow themselves to experience. This intimacy shifts the texture of everything you do in life and allows you to experience what you have truly been longing for in partnership.
This class is literally a step-by-step guide to support you in learning how to:
- free blocks in your own body that are hindering your capacity for pleasure
- deeply and intimately connect with your partner in totally 'out of the box' (no pun intended) ways
- learn a simple ritual that will connect you and your partner on a completely new level....one that can immediately be put into practice when you make love
*there is NO nudity or sexual contact in the class*
Looking forward to seeing you there!
The BEST Date- Night / Intro to Tantra for Couples Jan 30th 6-8pm . West LA $100 per couple to register: http://www.embodytantra.com/workshops/coming_soon.htm#1
*I am working on recording these so the audio will be accessible to people who are not in the LA area!