In our modern world almost everything we interact with has been shaped by an image that has been created over the years to ultimately sell us things. 'The American Dream' has become a warped manipulation... giving us the idea that somewhere, just over the horizon, is that perfect life we ordered.
Pleasure is something we all long for and beyond just feeling good it is a gateway to something that all meditation practitioners, self-help junkies (you know who you are) ;) and enlightenment seekers are searching for... the present moment.
The problem is that because of our life experiences many of us have numbed out to protect ourselves. Even if we can touch some kind of peace in our quiet meditations, we may notice that we are not experiencing what we truly long for in our lovemaking and intimate relationships.
It seems like almost everyone I encounter is longing to have access to the more advanced Tantric practices.
In this video I truly share not only the most advanced practice, but I also share what defines an advanced practitioner.
Women, let’s be honest. It can become almost stressful to think about orgasm. Did I have one? Should I fake since it’s not happening? Why isn’t he doing that thing that works for me? What if you could shift this? What if you could step out of that powerless feeling of wondering if your body will do what you want it to and if he will do what works for you?
Whether we like it and buy into it or not, we have been served a dream of what our lives should be like since we were young. And no matter what we consciously think about that dream, the programming is there. The great 'American Dream' is something else, it was dreamed up long ago and has since been painted in a light that no one's life can live up to. The more we compare ourselves against this dream, the less available we are to the beauty that is present in our lives.
When was the last time you got really angry? I mean total fury pulsing through your veins? The kind of anger where you feel like a switch flips inside of you and although you know enough to not hurt anyone, that animal part of you that wants to hurt someone wants to gets activated?
It's not brain-surgery. We were made for relating, for loving. Having said that, this modern world and the demands it seems to make of us, often leaves relationship as the very last thing to be nourished.
Often when we are seeking out answers around our sexual challenges we are led to things that can feel disconnected.
In this pic we start our journey into the Unknown about to enter 'Opaque' restaurant: Dining in total darkness...
On my birthday last year, I made a new year's resolution... I decided to give myself anything that I wanted in regards to taking great care of myself (even if it felt indulgent)...I realized that for a long time that no matter how much more money I was bringing in,