Deepen your experience of love & sex
Imagine if sex could be nourishing, a source of bonding… something that supports your relationship and opens new doors for you.
Love & Sex. I believe these things are two of the most important things we experience in this life. And the most complicated. Whether you love sex and want to go deeper, you are experiencing challenges sexually, or you just want to get to know yourself and your body better… this work can help.
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Private Sessions
Get the support you desire on your own or with a partner. Virtual + In Person options.
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Home Study
Learn in your own timing. In your own home. Lifetime access.
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Live Events
Join us live for a full community experience. In person + virtual.
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Rituals
Create a special ritual to honor an occasion like a wedding, baby blessing, birthday.
“Vulnerability and tenderness are the keys to allowing your body to receive more pleasure..”
How it works...
This is a process of sensitizing the body, we use simple body movements, meditation and communication techniques. You can choose to work privately, come to a live event or do a home-study course.
This work is really special in that we don’t focus on sexual techniques (though you will be taught how to take what you learn and use it in your sexual explorations). We do practices that allow the body to unwind and in that process we become more sensitive. Sensitive to touch, sensitive to energy moving in our bodies and even sensitive to the mental/emotional things our body is telling us.
Vulnerability and tenderness become the keys to allowing our bodies to receive more pleasure.
The process can be a slow dawning. Most people experience relaxation as a first step on the road to more pleasure.
My teaching methods are gentle and caring and all work is done fully clothed with no sexual contact.
Is it right for me?
This work is right for you if you are excited to know yourself (and your partner if you have one) more deeply, feel the vibrant potential of your body, break through blocks around sexuality and experience pleasure beyond what you have known.
You can enjoy this work as an individual or with a partner. Many people even begin on their own if their partner isn’t drawn to this work. It is accessible and supportive for all kinds of relationships and all are welcome.
This is ideal for you if you…
Want better sex with your partner.
Want to feel sexually alive again (or maybe for the first time).
Want to reconnect with your partner.
Want to know your own body better.
Have trouble with confidence in the bedroom.
You and your partner want different things in the bedroom.
Past experiences with sexuality have been traumatic and you want to embody and enjoy sex more.
You want to invest in and discover what truly inspires you sexually ~ rather than what you have been taught sex is.
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“I had shut down to sex, now it's opening in a new way..."
“It took some time for me to realize that I was just done with sex the way I had been doing it. Done with using it for validation or chasing intensity and orgasms, my being and my body were ready to mature. I’m so glad I found Charu to support me in that process, now it’s opening in a new way. I am enveloped in sensation and intimacy.”
~ Shauna
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“…I felt like we were falling in love again."
“I discovered things about her body that I never knew. I began to be able to read her signals and deeply attune to her body. Communication became easier so there wasn’t the static within our relationship that there had once been. I feel like we are having the best time (and best sex) of our relationship yet!”
~ Marc
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"With 2 little ones, we had forgotten how to connect..."
“The most amazing thing was how connected we felt after just a couple of exercises. Looking into one another’s eyes and really SEEING each other helped us to uncover some things that were holding us back. Charu coached us lovingly to have conscious communication about things that had caused pain and that allowed us to make repairs.”
~ Kevin
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"I felt self-conscious and confused..."
“I never felt comfortable or at home sexually. When a new attraction came into my life, I realized that I wanted to engage, but I wanted to do it differently. In a way that felt really right. Charu helped me to trust myself and redefine what sex is for ME. I can’t explain how this truly freed me to finally enjoy intimacy.”
~ F.N.
Meet Charu.
Nothing has made me feel more whole and alive than my sexuality. It has also challenged me, confronted me and opened me, making it one of the most exciting landscapes for growth and evolution.
Sexuality isn’t just what we experience with a partner, it’s also something we experience inside of ourselves. I am a devoted sexual explorer for over 25 years now. I feel so lucky to have chosen to immerse myself and deep dive into better understanding sexuality, exploration, power and self-love.
Over the past 18 years I have run events and retreats primarily in the Los Angeles area and supported clients extensively through 1 on 1 coaching. I draw from my extensive personal practice in relationship as well as my work with hundreds of clients, to provide the very best support for both couples and individuals who are longing for something more from relationship and sex.
I never stop learning and I know even after all these years I am only at the beginning. In 2001 I traveled and studied Neo-Tantra in India. I did my teacher training around 2004 with The Chandra Bindu Tantra Institute. For more than 10 years, my personal practice has been a Traditional Shri Vidya Tantric practice, guided by Nita Rubio.
This life is so short. The time to love someone is so short. The time to explore ourselves and make love and go deeper than we ever imagined in intimacy is so short.
If you desire to use this short time to feel the power of a rich sexual awakening, I’m here to help.
Upcoming Virtual Class! Sept 20th
In service of love, I am hosting a *Virtual Date Night*, where I will be guiding you through a special and sacred evening of sensual connection.
What our clients are saying
My whole perception of sex has changed…
“What I love about Charu is how honest and down to earth she is. In a world where everyone is trying to be an ‘influencer’ or a ‘guru’ of sorts, Charu is dedicated to being so real. That realness translated through the home-study course and allowed me to feel safe to be me. The safety created a space where I could explore things that were totally new to me and allowed me to be less self-conscious when exploring my body. My whole perception of what sex is has changed and my body is waking up to more sweet and nourishing pleasure than ever before. I am so grateful.”
Sex now brings us into the present…
“The way we have sex has completely changed. It's gone from something that felt very goal-oriented and at times effortful to something that immediately brings us into the present, connects us on a very deep level, relaxes us, and is pleasurable THE WHOLE TIME.”
Lovemaking became a FULL body experience for me…
“When we made love, it was such an amazingly FULL body experience for me... so amazed by the deeply arousing experience. Together we discovered something totally new. He held himself so long and discovered a new way to create long lasting pleasure for himself. I felt soooooo incredibly loved as we gently rocked and pulsated our way to what was for me multiple rippling orgasms over the space of 30 minutes. I feel like my cells are being rejuvenated.”
~ In Gratitude, Sophie.”
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